A few things have come to my attention recently which appears to be a culmination of some work I’ve been doing on myself around my abilities to see dead people. Some time ago, this was happening quite often. I’ve got stories of a business owner who still watches over the family business and priest I knew when I was a little child who came to say he’d passed on, almost to the day. That said, as quickly as it started happening,they seemed to quite suddenly disappear again.
Fast Forward to 3 or 4 months ago when I started working on getting them back. I’ve had a number of Kinesiology balances around this, particularly the fear surrounding it and have done a lot of research on ways to develop this skill, and ways to help alleviate the fear that sometimes creeps in around it.
Last week, I was going about my morning walk when out the corner of my eye popped a young boy with a yellow cap, hiding behind a tree. And when I turned my head to look, he was gone. Familiar with this sort of happening, I walked around the tree to see no one. There was no one there. They’re back! But how do I get them to stay for a chat? I only ever get to see them for split second at a time…
And as if that wasn’t enough, the other day, my man suggested I watch a TED talk about meditation (you can see it here: 10 Mindful Minutes). And it somehow ignited a thought that at those moments when I’ve seen these spirits, or had a prophetic dream that it has always felt “it just is” or “in the now” and that this was perhaps the best way to get to a point where I could chat with these visitors.
Today, I happened across an article about neuroscience research into mediums and what happens in the mind while communicating with the dead. What I got from this article was essentially that people’s minds were not focussed on any one thing, but on nothing in particular at all, no imagery, no memory, no emotion, they were in the moment. And then this afternoon, a beautiful elderly neighbor of mine was asking me about televisions. “I’d normally ask my son but he’s passed away now” she said with tears in her eyes. It’s moments like that I wish I had already mastered this skill. But in that moment, I realised that not only am I meant to master it, I’m meant to do more with it and that by sending all of these little signs or pieces of information the universe is telling me that now is the time to do so. And who am I to argue with the universe?!